Cherry Lips & Crystal Skies

Cherry Lips & Crystal Skies

Crystal Skies

To the dismay of many around me, I’ve fallen in love with Tay Swizzle’s latest album. I’m not the biggest fan of pop music, one or two cool hits on the radio and I’m like ‘Yay! This is great, let’s move on’. But this album has got me singing it at work, on the bus, at the gym… It’s just the best.

I’ve received lots of flack for my current obsession, with people saying many mean things about this person who has written many amazing titles and who is doing really well for herself. What it has taught me though, was that I can love who ever the hell I want to love. I can have this huge, obsession with Taylor and not care if it irks even the best of people around me, because it’s not for them, it’s for me. I was going through a bit of a rough patch when I started listening to the album, and yes… It speaks about break-ups… a lot. But it’s so catchy and well-written and the instrumentation astounds me because when you listen to the one-hit-wonders, you don’t pay attention to the cowbell sequence in the bridge because, why would you? Listening to the album made me excited about life and being in my mid twenties (25 is slowly approaching) and it made me question the things in my life that I’m not happy with.

This is a lot to take away from a 59 minute album, but it’s the best 59 minutes andΒ I know it will leave me in the best mood for days to follow. I say this all the time, but guys, life is too short to be putting up with crap.

i cant

It was Father’s Day on Sunday and a dear friend of mine, who passed away last year, would’ve celebrated his first Father’s Day, but didn’t because well, you can’t celebrate Father’s Day if you’re not alive. And it got me thinking, what are we doing if we’re not enjoying what we’re doing? Yes yes, I know, that got way too real way too soon… But I uh, yeah… I haven’t posted in a while so yay!

Maybe it’s the quarter life crisis approaching? Or it’s just me facingΒ the harsh reality that you set the standard for what you want in your life. You set the standard for the way you want people to treat you. Trust me, this can be a bit tougher than what you’d like, but it is. Remember the friend who broke my heart? Well. I’ve decided to put it all behind me and give him another chance. Boy did that open up a can of sour worms! So now, I’m playing the balancing act of choosing to be a decent human being and not allow people’s insecurities and damagedness (that’s not a real word) to enter my life, because I just want to save everybody. And let me tell you, those who are damaged, will always be damaged. We’re all damaged and if we keep people out solely based on their damagedness (again, not a real word. Although, damageableness is a word… but it’s not applicable to my sentence. It could be… but no.), no one would be friends with anybody, ever.

To an extent I think we’ve become experts at hiding our damagedness (this should seriously be a word), because you know, “Darling I’m A Nightmare Dressed Like a Daydream”. We’ve become so used to putting our best feet forward all day everyday. Hiding the bags under our eyes, covering up the nagging spot that showed up out of nowhere, straightening our beautiful natural curls because you know, straight hair don’t care. Well, I actually do care.


I care that the way I feel about myself, my body and my beauty routine shouldn’t be determined by what someone else things is beautiful or ‘on point’. Because if it’s not ‘on point’ to me, then who the hell gives a flying fcuk?

So. Here is is. Be happy, Be you, Be free. Don’t allow people, even with the best of intentions to dictate what you should/ shouldn’t be doing with your life. Be the person you want to be and don’t allow someone else’s standards ofΒ beauty, family, career or love be applied to your life because they are not the ones who have to deal with the consequences, you are.

So go forth and be your lovely,wonderfully amazing self πŸ™‚


Love and banana bran muffins,

Rochelle Joy xx


Fluffy Friend Fridays

Fluffy Friend Fridays

-It’s friday, as I’m sure you all know and this has been a really long week. So long, infact that I cannot wait for it to be over πŸ™‚ All i want to do is go to the beach, eat sushi and sip on virgin strawberry daiquiris all afternoon.

But, today is not that day! Instead, Alex and I will be heading up Table Mountain and then meeting friends for drinks because it’s the awesome Paul’s (he’ll probably never see this, but anyway) birthday *cue applause* he’s 25 today yay! Which is awesome because birthdays are awesome πŸ™‚ It’s just another reason for me to dress up and wear heels πŸ˜‰

So! Thank you friends for being born!

Sorry, got a bit side tracked over there πŸ™‚ Yes. Cute and fluffy friends! I think I’ll make this a thing. Every week, when it gets to this day and the weekend is about to show it’s beautiful face, I’ll remind the sweet people of earth that life isn’t actually that bad when you get to look at the adorable face of our fluffy creatures πŸ™‚

I always say this, and it’s because it’s so true. Life get’s so full of it sometimes. We have deadlines and assignments and lunch dates and washing and gymming routines and special couples time and we get lost in the midst of it all. Which is why it’s of the utmost importance to stop and take a step back. Look at what you have around you. Appreciate the little things that make you smile. Like our cute little friend over here! He’s all like ‘hey buddy, why are you not smiling? Come on, it’s not that bad. Look, I’m smiling. Smile along with me why don’t you?’

There you have it! The first of our many Fluffy Friend Fridays!

With love and awkward giggles (trying out something new here πŸ˜‰ )
Rochelle xx


Best Friendship Song Ever By Bruno Mars – YouTube

So a dear friend of mine (Thank you Lotie), whom I haven’t seen in nearly 4 years posted this video onto my Facebook wall, about 3 or so days ago. I hadn’t had the chance to listen to it and anyway, I did tonight.

It’s so precious. I’m not the biggest Bruno Mars fan, I’m not even the second biggest Bruno Mars fan. I’ll sing along to his tunes and tap my foot to the rhythm of his music, still, I wouldn’t call myself a fan. But. This song. Is the sweetest song I’ve listened to in a very, very long time. It might just be because the music video is so darn cute, (I love darn cute music videos) either way, it’s the cutest thing you’ll see today. And if I’m wrong and you do in fact see something cuter today, PLEASE send it to me so that I can share in your cuteness!

For now, enjoy the cutest thing you’ll see in the next few minutes. I can assure you, your heart will melt and you will want to cry πŸ™‚

Best Friendship Song Ever By Bruno Mars – YouTube.